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Off Balance Off Balance, by Dominique Moceanu, seemed a bitoff balance It goes back and forth between the story of Moceanu discovering the existence of, and later, meeting, the sister her parents gave up for adoption because she was born without legs, and the inside story of Dominique s gymnastic career That structure left me feeling off balance I found myself wishing fordetail and resolution of the many threads that wove through these stories I initially read the bookfor the story of the reconnection between the 2 sisters, and ended upinterested in the story of the abuse as perpetrated by Dominique s father and the famous Bela Karolyi I will never look at gymnastics, or indeed, any pro sport, quite the same again What price are we asking our elite athletes to pay for our entertainment I have long asked this question, and this book validates my concerns It is a shame that so many people knew of her father s temper and of Karolyi s mistreatment, and did nothing The end of the book reveals the fact that the Karolyis both Bela and Marta control gymnasticstoday than ever I hope that people listen closely to Ms Moceanu s concerns. In This Searing And Riveting New York Times Bestseller, Olympic Gold Medalist Dominique Moceanu Reveals The Dark Underbelly Of Olympic Gymnastics, The True Price Of Successand The Shocking Secret About Her Past And Her Family That She Only Learned Years LaterAt Fourteen Years Old, Dominique Moceanu Was The Youngest Member Of TheUS Women S Olympic Gymnastics Team, The First And Only American Women S Team To Take Gold At The Olympics Her Pixyish Appearance And Ferocious Competitive Drive Quickly Earned Her The Status Of Media Darling But Behind The Fame, The Flawless Floor Routines, And The Million Dollar Smile, Her Life Was A Series Of Challenges And Hardships Off Balance Vividly Delineates Each Of The Dominating Characters Who Contributed To Moceanu S Rise To The Top, From Her Stubborn Father And Long Suffering Mother To Her Mercurial Coach, Bela Karolyi Here, Moceanu Finally Shares The Haunting Stories Of Competition, Her Years Of Hiding Injuries And Pain Out Of Fear Of Retribution From Her Coaches, And How She Hit Rock Bottom After A Public Battle With Her ParentsBut Medals, Murder Plots, Drugs, And Daring Escapes Aside All Of Which Figure Into Moceanu S Incredible Journey , The Most Unique Aspect Of Her Life Is The Family Secret That Moceanu Discovers, Opening A New And Unexpected Chapter In Her Adult Life A Mysterious Letter From A Stranger Reveals That She Has A Second Sister Born With A Physical Disability And Given Away At Birth Who Has Nonetheless Followed In Moceanu S Footsteps In An Astonishing WayA Multilayered Memoir That Transcends The World Of Sports, Off Balance Will Touch Anyone Who Has Ever Dared To Dream Of A Better Life Viena stipriausi autobiografini knyg A inojau, kad gimnastika turi savo specifik , bet kad tiek yra aukojama, toks elgesys ir disciplina, sunku buvo patik ti Treneri po i ris sportinink , apsoliutus j diktatas, subjektyvus vertinimas kas gali dalyvauti tarptautin se var ybose, kas ne Nuo iandien visai kitaip i r siu gimnastykos pasirodymus olimpin se var ybose. This book has gotten some negative press recently due to the fact that Ms Moceanu bad mouthed her former coaches This is not what the book is primarily about It is her memoir It shows you a window into her life through her eyes She discovered a sister she never had, and while this seems to be the primary focus she does give you a glimpse into her world Her trials and tribulations and she appears to be very honest, although she really only touches on it briefly about how illy she might have handled some of the pressure of growing up She does bring attention to the fact that the sport has changed As a former completive gymnast myself seeing how much control one family has over the sport saddens me It no longer appears to be completive but who is their favorite that get to move on Again this is only a small aspect of her book but since I have not been in the world of competitive gymnastics in a good 13 years or so it is eye opening She is bringing attention to it in hopes to change it After all the U.S only has had one team of goal medalist gymnast, and that was in 1996 when things were the way they were when I competed I understand the idea of trying to create thingscentralized but it doesn t appear to be working and I believe that was her point, in that again small aspect of the book I did enjoy seeing her almost bear herself in this book It defiantly gives you a inside look into the girl she was and how she became the woman she is today It was well written and I enjoyed it very much I did struggle to get it started, I won t say it s a slow start, so that is the reason it didn t get a five star rating on my end But I will say I m not sure if it was her, her editor, or even the publisher but they were very mindful of explaining technical terms which I m sure is greatly appreciated form people who are unfamiliar with the sport This book was written, you can tellso for herself, but it can be read by anyone but I m sure gymnast would greatly enjoy it. Yes, truth is often much stranger than fiction Dominique Moceanu wins gold at the 1996 Olympics after years of intense training at the hands of the same pair who coached Nadia Comaneci to her perfect scores Most of the book describes the mind games that go on as the coaches force Dominique to push herself beyond the point of pain.Every few chapters, theinteresting story for me is told about how Dominique discovers as an adult, about to give birth to her own daughter, that she has a younger sister, Jennifer, who was given up for adoption at birth Born with no legs, Jennifer was considered too much of a burden for struggling Romanian immigrants to raise The glimpse provided of this other sister s childhood is a much brighter one than Dominique s story of endless practices and harsh criticism.Besides leaving me with the desire to hearabout Jennifer s story, Off Balance made me question who paid the highest price, the child with the raw talent that was polished to Olympic gold through years of harsh training or the one considered so defective at birth she was given to another family to raise. Over the summer, my best friend s boyfriend called me and said, Katiedo you know who Dominique Moceanu is Being an avid Olympics fan, I of course knew of her as the little brunette gymnast that was one fraction of the Magnificent Seven from the 96 Atlanta games that brought home all around women s gold for the first time to America What I didn t know was how insane the rest of her life was As soon as finding out about the extreme situations in her life, I got on the waiting list for her book at the library It d definitely help if you are an Olympics, orspecifically, a gymnastics fan and remember the 96 games care about the sport, but Ms Moceanu s story is so muchthan that From an abusive father who first spoke the words I love you when Dominique was 21 to nasty coaches that only had their best interest at heart the famous Karolyi duo to the middle sister she never knew she had because her parents gave her up for adoption and never told her , Dominique truly tells an incredible story The hardest to wrap your head around is the story of her sister Jennifer, who was given up at birth when her parents saw she was born without legs and allegedly decided they didn t have the funds capability to be able to raise her Jennifer had other plans and persevered through her handicapp so that it didn t matter and ended up being an award winning tumbler and featured aerialist on Britney Spears Circus tour Off Balance is a captivating read that transitions well from Ms Moceanu s rough past to her climb into normalcy and back again and truly gives you an appreciation for having loving parents as well as supportive coaches if you re an athlete and make you question if gold medals are really worth it. Ultimately it was my happy memories of Atlanta s Magnificent Seven from 1996 that led me to this book, and while the truths I read flipped some of those memories upside down I was still captivated by the book Though her style was a little bit disjointed, the storytelling overall was well done She paints a very rough picture of the Karolyis, who coach their American gymnast as though they were career athletes of communist Russia These tellings make me want to rewatch the 1996 Olympics and see if I notice the falsity of Bela Karolyi s affections toward the girls Moceanu also talks a lot of her rocky relationship with her strict father, which gets worse and then better as the book and ultimately, Moceanu s life goes on It was an emotional relief for me to know that she and her father reconcile somewhat before he dies of cancer The shocking revelation of her long lost sister and her foray into the dark world of drugs and alcohol took me by surprise, but I appreciated her honesty about the tough subjects She sugarcoated nothing and wrote an honest revelation not just about her life, but about the world of elite gymnastics in the United States Watching the 2012 Olympics this past week, I can t help but wonder if behind their smiles and pretty leotards, other young gymnasts are having similar hardships. Dominique Moceanu has been an idol of mine when I first saw her beat another idol, Shannon Miller, in 1995 at the age of 13 I was 8 Being a fellow gymnast, though I was never an Elite, I can relate to a lot of her struggles in our sport, one that is, at times, physically, mentally, and emotionally grueling I always looked up to Dominique and envied what seemed like her perfect relationship with her coaches, Bela and Marta When I first started out she was rising to fame, I couldn t stand my coaches and wanted what she had I now know how the public was duped and how much she suffered Gymnasts go through what ballet dancers do with coaches, if notThe pressure to be thin is exacerbating and weight gain is shunned, because it really does change your flight path through aerial movements My competitve career was over shortly after puberty, when my body changed, and done completely at the age of 16, due to chronic injuries Dominique should be commended for her ability to openly share her journey and also to fight for what is right in the gymnastics community, since it has moved towards an Eastern European dictatorship the dictator being Matra Karoyli, who is so deleterious to gymnasts confidence in their ability and self esteem She USAG should be ashamed, her for her behavior USAG for allowing her to be in power and for backing her. I saw Dominique Moceanu interviewed on The Road to London on Universal Sports They mentioned her book, Off Balance This is my favorite thing about my kindle, no hour long trips to the book store one way, I immediately purchased it and devoured it.Gymnastics is my favorite summer Olympic sport And I have to admit, I wanted the dirt on Bela and Marta Korolyi And I got it Moceanu certainly had difficulty in her life And she lays it out without whining or justifications or sympathy seeking And it seemed like she went out of her to way to be fair to some of the people who should have had her best interest in mind as a young gymnast.There is a lot of stuff here a long lost, and yet unknown sister, emancipation from her parents, an abusive father, Olympic gold medal and coaches who appear to be self serving, to put it mildly.Having just watched the Olympic trials for gymnastics and watching Marta watch the women gymnasts and make decisions, I was fascinated to learnabout the Karoloyis and the way they control the sport of gymnastics And it is appalling But man Juicy like a Jackie Collins novel Love it This was one of the better celebrity memoirs I ve read though I d argue Moceanu s less a celebrity and just a well known athlete, at least among people in my generation Aside from dishing out a lot of personal stuff, Moceanu gives an inside look at the politics of USA Gymnastics I d had an idea about some of them, but she goes at it full force in the last couple of chapters, discussing how it s terrible that the entire sport rests upon the decisions of the Karolyis Gymnastics is the only sport in the country that has this sort of system, and it s modeled after Russian and Romanian gymnastics While Moceanu details a lot of what you d expect in terms of struggling with physical shape, with diet, with eating, and with competition, she was also dealing with a lot of adults who downright abused her Aside from abusive coaches and there is no doubt in my mind that s the best way to describe the Karolyis Moceanu s father was pretty wretched as well That all played out really publicly when she filed for emancipation, but the book details a lotof her side of the story I give her huge credit because where she could have sensationalized the story, instead, Moceanu is kind of humble about the entire matter She forgave her father repeatedly, and she s forthright in saying the media really played the story up to being muchthan it was shocker I appreciated how throughout the story, there was little anger or resentment toward anything that had happened in her life Rather, it was her story, and she reacted as necessary Not once was this one of those pity me kind of memoirs Moceanu knows how neat her path was in terms of being such a young and accomplished athlete She just shares some of the lesser known things.Prior to reading the book, I d heard about how she view spoiler discovered she had a sister who d been given up for adoption and how life changing it was to reconnect with her It s sort of mind blowing how you could go through your entire life and never know you had a sibling But as strange is it was, I related I m pretty sure my little sisters don t know about me and I know my husband s two older brothers don t know about him Families are complicated things, and I appreciated how Moceanu approached this in her memoir Again, it s never a call for pity or sympathy Instead, it s about how complicated things are and you just roll with it hide spoiler

About the Author: Dominique Moceanu

Dominique Helena Moceanu is an American author and retired American gymnast She was a member of the gold medal winning United States women s gymnastics team the Magnificent Seven at the 1996 Summer Olympics in Atlanta.

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